Change

As is said "Change is the only constant in life"

I have had a significant if not dramatic change by something some would say is not a significant event. However the event turned out to be quite significant to me in the way I view the world. And I don't know if i will come to regret the change but I can't help it. It helps me feel less vulnerable, less needy and more thick skinned and less emotional.

Every great journey begins with small steps and it's never too late to embark on a new journey - internal or external.

I like the new me that is more internally oriented and less externally oriented.

This has led me to thinking what are my goals and what should be the systems for that?

My goals would be family, career and health. Having more than three goals is a distraction from achieving the first three goals. So these are my three top goals and now I need to work on sustainable systems for these goals.

As I further think, I realise that I can't help walking away from something that I don't appreciate. It comes as a part of my personality and not something I do consciously. I think it actually takes some sort of courage to walk away without knowing what the final outcome would be or if it's eventually in your favor.

Also I realised, there are two kinds of decisions - ones we deliberate and take and ones we can't help but take.

Wearing heart on your sleeve is not always a good thing and should be done selectively and with caution. 

I think I just jotted down some of my insights from the experiences this last year.

I close here with final toast: To change